How To Stop Being Needy and Insecure

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So you blew it with your crush for being too needy and desperate now what do you do? Well not much unfortunately, but I'm sure you would want to know how to prevent that from happening again, and that's something you have a much larger control over.

Being needy happens for many reason if you read the book Attached Amir Levine and Rachel Heller explain that you may fall into the attachment category of ""anxious"" as opposed to ""avoidant"" or ""secure"". Some say you are living in a world of scarcity leading to desperation, Others may say you're insecure and just need others to comfort you out of fear of loneliness. I honestly don't know if there is simply one reason but I have definitely fallen into the desperate/needy realm with women and I'm so glad to have trained myself out of it.

In my eyes a lot of problems in life can be solved when you reshape the problem to look like a skill and with any skill all it takes is a lot of practice and commitment. This philosophy however is by no means marketable and not the answer you were probably looking for but it is extremely effective. When you can admit this skill needs work and commit to the slow arduous process of progress you feel a little more at ease that the light is finally showing for this problem of yours. Stay strong and listen up.

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"Everyone I have ever known — I take that back — every likable person I have ever known in this world has admitted to periods of sheer insecurity"

Brian Butterworth PhD

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