"I tried to blame everyone and everything I knew for my drinking; the death of my child, the ex-husbands, etc. Everyone was responsible for my drinking except me."

Jean

"When I was thirteen, friends would make fun of me if I didn’t have a drink. I just gave in because it was easier to join the crowd"

Samantha

"I woke up on the weekends needing a cup of coffee in one hand and a beer in the other."

Nick

"Because I’m an alcoholic I can’t go to the pub and have three pints then go home, when I drink I drink untill I pass out."

Mike

"You need to realize that the little voice in your head telling you to use is your own."

Maya

"I gave up hope of ever becoming sober. I decided to drink myself to death. It didn't work. Now I am left no choice but facing my problems."

Jean

"It was as if there was a hole inside me, which two or three drinks filled quite nicely."

Jane

"I couldn’t wait to get home and get something to drink. It was the only relief I could get from myself."

George

"For so many years it seemed like such a struggle; suddenly, it isn't a struggle any more."

H.L.

"My life was chaotic. I hardly ate. I wasn't interested in anything except drink."

Suzanne

"When I went to school I made new friends. These new friends liked to drink and stay out at night, so I did the same."

Anonymous

"I am embarrassed about the volume of alcohol I consume, I drink every day and I drink a lot…"

Olivia

"I had friends that didn't drink that way. I didn't want to drink that way, I didn't want to be that way."

Peggy

"I came into recovery because I got tired of losing all the time. I lost my first set of children and turned around was about to lose my second set. But even that's not the reason why I came into recovery."

Theresa

"When I was drinking I would use alcohol to avoid the things I didn't want to deal with or accept. I would wallow in the past with my memories and my bottle or I would fantasize about a future I could never realize unless I let go of the alcohol completely"

Marion

"I was a completely different person when I drank. Trouble brewed wherever I appeared. Yes, some times were fun and I behaved, but majority of the time I was terrible. I did things I would have never done sober."

Jeanette

"I got married at 21 and we drank and fought together. We were together three years and after the marriage ended I really went wild. Drinking became even more important to me and a whole string of relationships followed."

Nancy

"I drank to get drunk from the start. I was a blackout drinker from the start. I never knew if it would take two drinks or 20 to get me to the place I wanted to be. That place was anyplace else."

Gwen

"I lay in the ER from a atempted overdose, that I didn't succeed at doing. I had tried it three times in the past two years. I had to find peace, serenity, happiness. That day was Easter Sunday. I knew I had to go back to AA."

Madeleine

"I was in complete denial of what alcohol was doing to the chemical make up of my body."

Mark

"In May of 2006, I rushed to the emergency room because my hands, arms, feet and legs cramped so bad that I couldn't move them and my face was tingling. I was dehydrated and malnourished. My body was trying to tell me something and I was forced to listen."

Christy

"After a bout of depression at university, I started drinking to relieve anxiety and help me sleep. The quantity quickly escalated and by the time I was 24, I was drinking every day."

Tina

"My children were young when I was active in my addiction. I don’t believe they understood what was going on, though my husband worked to be honest with them. He told them I was sick and would become well."

Deborah

"It was sort of scary at first, but I was certain I was not the only one who needed to approach recovery in a unconventional way."

Deborah

"Along with perceived risk, your teen’s alcohol use can be predicted by the expectation that one will feel a certain way when they drink."

drugfree.org

"The genetic factors that contribute to the full range of alcohol consumption versus alcohol dependence in humans are distinct.”"

Dr Boris Tabakoff

"It reached a stage where I couldn't sleep without a drink, but I couldn't get out of bed without one either"

Steve

"When my wife decided she couldn't live with me anymore, and subsequently left - that was when I knew I had to do something."

Nigel

"Drinking is so ingrained in our culture that to refrain from it may be seen as a denial of that culture or an admission that we cannot conform to what is socially acceptable."

Norm Cohen

"Self-control is key when it comes to drinking"

Norm Cohen

"Enabling is “removing the natural consequences to the addict of his or her behavior.”"

Darlene Lancer, JD

"You may have to weigh the consequences of experiencing short-term pain vs. long-term misery,"

Darlene Lancer, JD

"Always have a Plan B to cope with addicts’ unreliability; otherwise, you end up feeling like a victim."

Darlene Lancer, JD

"When I look in the mirror, I can say I actually like this person; I had to deal with all my emotions and stuff. Before my emotions were in a bottle."

Debra

"I woke up one morning after a heavy night out to find I'd wet the bed, and the babe I'd pulled the night before was missing"

James

"After about five hours of drinking, I vaguely remember a taxi journey home. I also remember falling on my face. Yes, face. Not hands, or knees but face."

Cheezie

"Whichever approach you take, it is important to understand that the family dynamic in drug and alcohol addiction is incredibly powerful"

Steven Gifford

"The goal is to find what works now, and to educate yourself about all the options available"

Mark S Gold, MD

"Many kids have internalized a dangerous and false message: “Unless you are at a large gathering of friends drinking, you are a loser.”"

Roger

"I like to drink. You could even say I’m a heavy drinker. Does that mean I’m an alcoholic?"

Anonymous

"After all, they didn’t know about the college “accidents” that sent me to the hospital emergency room with severe ankle sprains (from falling while drunk) or the night that friends thought I was having a heart attack after a bad combination of alcohol and"

Beth

"If I were more responsible, I would stop waking up in strange places with strange people, or so I told myself."

Beth

"I realized with a sudden force that every time I got into trouble, alcohol was involved"

Beth

"It's just too easy to look at life as a half-empty glass… especially when you've been drinking"

Philip

"There is no law stating that alcohol is a necessary ingredient for holiday cheer"

Drew Edwards

"I’ve seen hundreds of families in this very situation and their dilemma is always the same: they all want to influence their child to get on a better path"

Dr Michael Pantalon

"Occasional intoxication is not a symptom of a disease; it is a choice"

Kenneth

"I lost my job and I lost my family. But the bottle was always there for me"

Ryan

"We knew we were enabling him - but what else is a parent to do?"

Barbara

"I landed back in my suburban city, however, anything but free. I was a 23-year-old, full-blown alcoholic with a lot to show for my school career but little recollection of how I got it."

Beth

"After university, most people stopped going out drinking four times a week. But I was still young, and I wanted to have fun, and I thought I could handle it"

Derek

"I can stop drinking whenever I like. I just don't see the need."

Fred

"I know we’ve got problems, but it’s hard to cut back because all of our friends drink."

Gary

"Things were great before we had kids. But I’m worried. We’ve had some bad fights. And I can’t seem to reach him anymore. Every night he drinks a few beers and just sits in front of the TV."

Sharon

"We just got home from a party. We had a few drinks and a great time. Now we’re bickering again over nothing!"

Sharon

"We went out for a romantic dinner and shared a bottle of wine. We were relaxed and felt close. Then we went to a club and had a few more. Now she’s losing control again and flirting with a stranger. Why does this keep happening? Does she really love me?"

Gary

"Many parents make the mistake of waiting until the child has begun drinking, but if you listen and respond to your child sensitively, you may be able to help prevent problems from developing later."

Mark S Gold, MD

"Two of the more traumatic things I went through were growing up with an alcoholic parent and my parents’ divorce. I tried to stuff the void I experienced with drugs and alcohol"

Alice

"I never even considered the idea that I might become an alcoholic or drug addict, and I swore to myself that I would never end up like my father"

Alice

"I wanted to fit in and feel better about myself. The fact that I gave in to peer pressure is no surprise."

Alice

"Drinking and college go together like “love and marriage”—right? Wrong!"

Rita

"In families with alcoholism, emotions and priorities can get very mixed up — and not just by the alcoholic."

Erika

"I realized that, through no fault of my own, but rather a strong inherited predisposition, I could not drink alcohol the way other people could. I could not stop once I started, so I knew then that I would have to not drink at all-for life."

Richard

"I felt trapped, lost, and broken. I was walking through hell everyday but I was dragging the people who care right behind me."

Becca

"I’m very insecure as a result of my dad's drinking. And because my dad let me down so many times, I feel like I can’t rely on anyone. I hate the way that alcohol is seen as cool and glamorous."

Charlotte

"For ten years I was a functioning alcoholic. Because I was constantly topping up, I never had withdrawal symptoms, but my health began to suffer. I regret putting my family through this but I feel optimistic about the future."

Loris

"Although they were initially shocked and disappointed when I told them, friends and family have been incredibly supportive."

Jenny

"One bottle of wine a night turned into two, then three, and when I set up my own business working from home it gave me carte blanche to drink all day."

Karen

"Video games were a very important factor in my recovery. They helped take my mind off drinking. Keeping active is key."

Jason

"I stopped drinking 13 years ago after a shock when I thought I had dropped my baby girl over the side of a fishing trawler in a blackout."

Jill

"I feel SO VERY guilty and shameful that I got drunk when I as 17 weeks pregnant. This is by far the worse thing I have ever done."

Lanice

"Smoking kills half of all lifetime smokers."

Dr. Alex Bobak